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Joseph Vela
on 06/05/2018 at 02:15 am
Joseph, I can tell you that you ARE a strong man as you always believed; you just can't do it without Jesus. No matter what happens as a result of any decisions made in the past...nothing we do is unforgivable through Jesus. We cannot change others so do not try and stop your wife if she feels she needs to leave. Prove who you are to God and only He truly knows our repentance. Our action huge, brother, not words, nor regret nor sorrow for past sins is what defines us. Nothing is stronger than Almighty God who weilds the power over sin. Do what is right for in His eyes and avoid the near occasions of sin. Watch what strength truly means when you fight this spiritual battle. Dear God Almighty, we thank you for granting us life. Grant Joseph and all of us who struggle with the consequences of sin the strength to overcome. The strength that only and always comes from the healing power of Jesus.
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John.Mark
on 06/03/2018 at 09:08 pm
This is EXACTLY where Im at right now. This spoke volumes to me!
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Greg Arnold
on 06/03/2018 at 02:46 pm
Praying for your breakthroughs, gentlemen. Confession is a powerful invitation of the Holy Spirit to charge into your fight. Lean into it and press on. Amen.
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Thomas Simmons
on 06/03/2018 at 06:07 am
I've struggled multiple times over the last few years about honesty over our family finances. I've gotten away from God and it has put a strain on my marriage and family. I learned the wrong way to have marriage from my parents failed marriage and even how they handled money and lied about it. I'm so tired of being this way and acting this way. My wife and kids do not deserve it. I'm putting forth effort with daily bible reading and prayer. Asking God to give me a pure mind, lead me away from the temptation to lie. I want to be a honorable man with integrity. This is what I needed to read at this moment. Please pray for me as I struggle to overcome this. It's great to have a place of men to go to. Thanks
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Boyce Moses
on 06/02/2018 at 05:38 pm
Good morning brother Joseph. You have taken a big step by what you have posted this morning. As James says confess to a brother so you can heal. Now move forward and confess to your wife. You have an awesome life ahead of you, live it abundantly. God Bless!
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Boyce Moses
on 06/02/2018 at 05:35 pm
Good morning brother Joseph. You have taken a big step by what you have posted this morning. As Hames says:
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Whitlock
on 06/02/2018 at 03:56 pm
Heavenly Father good and gracious all the time, I humbly approach Your throne of freedom from bondage. Thank You for the precious blood of Jesus Christ that I can come right to Your throne and ask forgiveness from my sins. I have nothing of value You need, I have a humble and repented heart, seeking to be obedient to Your commands. obedience brings freedom, rest, peace, and confidence in my salvation with You Lord. may I live a life of honesty and integrity for You Lord, May my confession cleanse me and step out of secrecy and into Your glorious light. Amen. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent. Luke 15:6- 7 NIV
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Jimmy
on 06/02/2018 at 12:21 pm
Good morning brother Joseph. Today is a new day to honor the Lord and your wife and your children. You and I cannot change what we did yesterday, but today is a new day. Confession first at the cross and allow the blood of Jesus to wash over you. Confession to your wife is next. A long road ahead but with one day at a time loving and serving. Blessings
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Justin Fernandez
on 06/02/2018 at 11:38 am
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Justin Fernandez
on 06/02/2018 at 11:38 am
Brothers I pray for you both! Please a fellow brother in the faith. You are both at the point where God is patiently waiting for your love. You must confess your sins to your Heavenly father snd understand the ONLY way to live this life is NOT to live for ourselves, it is to live for our creator. That is where life truly starts when you know that when you accept Jesus Christ into your heart wholeheartdly. You will go to heaven for eternity once you give up the ghost. I was in very similiar situations with having a wife and two kids of my own. BUT HEAR THIS BECAUSE OF GOD ALMIGHTY YAHWEH, He has healed ALL my problems and all my struggles. He broke my addiction to videogames, to porn, to depression and suicide. Now I have my wife telling me how she cant believe how much I have changed. Only through Jesus can we born again, Now I have others telling me I will be a pastor one day. You never know where God can take you if you believe AND receive him. LIVE LIFE 100% IN YOUR FAITH AND NEVER LOOK BACK!AMEN!
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joseph
on 06/02/2018 at 09:26 am
I try tricking everyone into believing I'm such a great guy. That I have my life together. That I'm not a slave to lustful desires and sins of the flesh, and in truth I am. I have hurt my wife in ways unimaginable. I've made her feel that she is not enough. that she is to fat, to ugly that she can't keep my attention where it should be. I have hurt my kids because I haven't been strong enough to fight temptation. They have seen and heard way to much. I know I need accountability but I am afraid to open up to anyone. I've always believed that I was a strong man, and that I didn't need help. I am now on the brink of losing everything. My wife wants to leave. I take that back she doesn't want to but she feels she has no choice.
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joseph
on 06/02/2018 at 09:24 am
I need to learn to confess and to be stronger.

DAY 153: Gaining Confidence



The fruit of God's righteousness will be peace; its effect will be quietness and confidence forever. ~ Isaiah 32:17


There is freedom in truth.  It brings rest, peace, and visible confidence causing others to take notice.  A man committed to living honestly with himself and those around him gains incredible confidence. 

Christianity becomes electric and life-giving when we come clean and begin a new day with honor an integrity.

If you find yourself exhausted and needing rest from the chains of secrets and shady half-truths - today is the day to come clean.  

What do you need to confess?  It's time to go get your peace and quiet!


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