Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm. ~Proverbs 13:20
The people you choose to spend time around, actually does matter. The old saying, "you become the company you keep" is true.
Make the effort to spend time with guys who make you a better man. Choose to spend time with guys who count on you to help make them better men.
Wisdom is meant to be received and given. Do both.