For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers. ~ Proverbs 11: 14
If you want your family and friends to find the hope of Christ, you have to show up and bring it. You are the one to show them the way.
If you want to lead your community to God, then you have to stand up for God. Connect to other Godly men to keep your strength and focus.
Do you have advisors? Are you an advisor?