In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps. ~Proverbs 16:9
Our desires shape our destination. If you aren't where you want to be, perhaps you are establishing the steps without giving them to God.
If your big goal is to "stop doing something" or "start doing something" you are working from the wrong end.
Goals don't begin with what you want to stop or start. They live where you want to end up and who you want to become.
Think about this... When you open the map app, do you type in the address of where you are or where you want to go?
Faith and life goals should be built on who you want to become or what you want to accomplish.
Ask God to guide you along the path he has chosen for you and to put the destination in your heart. Dwell on that destination - then go after it.