Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.
~ James 1:12
A man who who endures hardships with patience and focus can power through challenges and difficulties as if it is his duty.
Look for the blessing of showing your grit in the test of every uncontrollable circumstance. This is how you gain momentum and show God's grace through your actions and attitude.
Instead of asking, "why me, Lord?" Give thanks for the trial. Can you find a pathway to serve God while you feel stuck?