Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. ~ Romans 12:12
When things are going well, celebrate! When things are crappy, hang in there! In either circumstance - just keep talking to God.
Men have a tendency to close off access to their lives. Being open and vulnerable can often feel like a weakness or seem difficult to manage.
Take notice of the life of Christ, he lived the value of having close friends who celebrated and labored together. And he prayed at all times.
If you want to get the most out this life, you'll have to let at least a couple of guys in. Get connected. Stay faithful in prayer. It's a much better ride when you do.