For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. Proverbs 2:6
If you really want to get a handle on your life or the situation you are in...soak up God's wisdom. He's given each of us a powerful guide and examples of men who have been through hell and back. He's given us examples of winners and losers.
Today, open the proverbs and ask God to give you new eyes and understanding. Listen to His word as it unfolds into your current life.