A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. ~ Matthew 12: 35
Our thoughts lead to our words. Our words lead to our actions. Our actions lead to our habits. Our habits form our character.
Dwell on hope, joy, and generosity. It will flow out of your life and the people around you will notice and reflect your joy back to you.
We are drawn to joy... it's a signature of God's love.
Strive to be a man others wish to be near. Start by training your thoughts on God's grace, then listen to how your words change.