Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. ~ Philippians 4:8
We naturally gravitate toward the things which we keep in our thoughts. In other words, we walk toward those things we think about - oftentimes unaware.
If you are finding yourself in the midst of chaos or upheavel, stop for a minute - examine the things which occupy your thoughts most often.
If you want to change your direction, start with changing you thoughts. Meditate on God's love, God's hope, and God's truth. The Daily Kickstart is a good habit to help.
Remember, "AMOR VINCIT OMNIA" ... "LOVE CONQUERS ALL" ... and God is Love.